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I am Emily and 34 years old. I have lived all but five years of my life in Memphis Tennessee. (Yes, I have a southern accent and I say “y’all.”) I currently live in the Midtown neighborhood of Memphis with two jerky cats named Henry and Milo.

I am a former theater nerd and artist, who occasionally still dabbles in crafts, drawing, and general creative messiness. I write poetry, and have amassed quite a collection of melodramatic, overemotional clumps of words that are very dear to my heart, and therefore I hardly ever share them. One day I hope to go back to college and get my degree in creative writing, graphic design, or art.

I am an independent liberal, intersectional feminist, pro-body positive, disability advocate, LGBTQ+ ally, Black Lives Matter supporter. Among other things.

I am the oldest of four siblings. I come from a family of writers, teachers, artists, and musicians. My father is a certified genius and secretly the most generous, sensitive man, although you wouldn’t know it if you only saw his dry humor. My mother was a bright light, a fierce lover of life and her children, an artist and a writer and a teacher in all aspects of her life, a truly kind-hearted woman who was generous to everyone who crossed her path. We lost her unexpectedly in June of 2010, and life has never been the same.

I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder when I was 10 years old, and generalized anxiety, panic disorder, and PTSD in my late teens and early 20s, although I suspect I had been suffering from those issues for years. I also have several endocrine issues; my theory is that my pituitary is an asshole. Over the years, I’ve just come to accept that this is who I am. And while it’s not fun, I know how to live with it.

In case you’re interested, here is a list of random stuff I like:
Alkaline Trio, sushi (especially salmon nigiri), New Orleans, the beach (specifically Ocean Isle Beach, North Carolina), photobooths, baby animals, Memphis Grizzlies, making faces, taking selfies when I’m drunk, singing loudly and poorly in the car, road trips, tacos, beer (except IPAs), Amelie, brightly colored hair, crazy shoes, making lists (haha)

    • Festive af last night. Second picture was, uh, several drinks in at a Christmas party.
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    • My coworker said I looked like a rich bitch after I put on my coat, but my outfit is totally Target except for my boots. But if you pronounce it “Tar-jay,” we can pretend I paid hundreds of dollars for this look.
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    • My first Christmas in my apartment (2016) vs this year. Still don’t think I have enough decorations though.
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    • Possibly professional.
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    • Yeah, it happened. 🤷🏻‍♀️ My apartment is festive AF.
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    • These past two, three months have been a journey for me. I try to be honest about my struggles with mental illness, but I have gone through some things lately that I felt were going to break me. I feel like I have finally come out of the other side, and I feel stronger than I have in many years. Guys, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you are struggling. There is no reason to waste your time on Earth hurting. You deserve to be happy.
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    • I promise I’ll post some actual content soon. Life has been insane the past couple months. In the mean time, here is a picture of @buzzcocked and I from the Memphis Flyer. I promise we were not drunk (yet).
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    • Waiting to put up most of my Christmas decorations, but started on this little village.
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    • Making meatloaf, drinking pumpkin beer, and getting ready to watch a spooky movie. It’s the most wonderful time of the year! 🎃👻💀🍁🍂
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    • Put a combination of @joico ruby red and amethyst over my faded amethyst, and I kind of love the results! It’s red-violet, burgundy, bright conglomeration of color. (Also, I bought these glasses thinking they were very Jackie O, but I feel more Willy Wonka in them. 🤷🏻‍♀️)
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    • Okay, so clearly I need to clean my mirror/room/life, and I’m hiding my face because makeup didn’t happen today, but I ended up accidentally wearing the cutest outfit today because I ran out of black clothes except this dress, and I ran into Target and bought sparkly leggings and booties and, whoops, cute outfit. I’ll get a better pic of the leggings and booties tomorrow.
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    • I’m tired of the purple, but I’m not really sure what color to do next. Part of me wants to go back to brunette, but I know I’ll get bored. 😂
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