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I am Emily and 34 years old. I have lived all but five years of my life in Memphis Tennessee. (Yes, I have a southern accent and I say “y’all.”) I currently live in the Midtown neighborhood of Memphis with two jerky cats named Henry and Milo.

I am a former theater nerd and artist, who occasionally still dabbles in crafts, drawing, and general creative messiness. I write poetry, and have amassed quite a collection of melodramatic, overemotional clumps of words that are very dear to my heart, and therefore I hardly ever share them. One day I hope to go back to college and get my degree in creative writing, graphic design, or art.

I am an independent liberal, intersectional feminist, pro-body positive, disability advocate, LGBTQ+ ally, Black Lives Matter supporter. Among other things.

I am the oldest of four siblings. I come from a family of writers, teachers, artists, and musicians. My father is a certified genius and secretly the most generous, sensitive man, although you wouldn’t know it if you only saw his dry humor. My mother was a bright light, a fierce lover of life and her children, an artist and a writer and a teacher in all aspects of her life, a truly kind-hearted woman who was generous to everyone who crossed her path. We lost her unexpectedly in June of 2010, and life has never been the same.

I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder when I was 10 years old, and generalized anxiety, panic disorder, and PTSD in my late teens and early 20s, although I suspect I had been suffering from those issues for years. I also have several endocrine issues; my theory is that my pituitary is an asshole. Over the years, I’ve just come to accept that this is who I am. And while it’s not fun, I know how to live with it.

In case you’re interested, here is a list of random stuff I like:
Alkaline Trio, sushi (especially salmon nigiri), New Orleans, the beach (specifically Ocean Isle Beach, North Carolina), photobooths, baby animals, Memphis Grizzlies, making faces, taking selfies when I’m drunk, singing loudly and poorly in the car, road trips, tacos, beer (except IPAs), Amelie, brightly colored hair, crazy shoes, making lists (haha)

    • Today was pretty awesome. ❤️ @buzzcocked •••
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    • I don’t have super any recent pics, so here’s a drunken selfie of me from a few weeks ago to go along with this absolutely irrelevant chain of text. I’ve also turned off comments because I don’t want pity or sympathy or advice. I just want to purge my feelings. I haven’t posted much in awhile because I’m not happy. I haven’t liked myself in awhile, and January and February have never been good months for me. I’ve been really self-critical and sad and isolating myself from the world when I’m not working. I know logically that this depressive period will end, but that doesn’t mean it hurts less or doesn’t feel unending. I’ll probably feel ashamed by tomorrow and delete this post, but don’t forget your “gone” friends. They may be hiding from the gray skies right now, but they will bloom again when the sun returns.
    • Work party last night! And snow! ❤️❄️ I hate that I didn’t pics of everyone.
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    • Channeling Wednesday Addams and, yes, I cleaned my mirror after taking these.
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    • 2009 vs now. Me then: “I won’t be happy until I’m skinny!” Naw, girl, you won’t be happy until you quit accepting shitty behavior in relationships, get your meds straight, go to therapy, and focus on yourself. I may have gained weight and gone through some real shit, but things are so much better now.
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    • 2018 was my “get shit done” year. I’ve focused on my career, my home, and doing things I’ve needed to do for years. I’ve gone back to therapy, took a year off from dating, and have tried to stay on top of my health, both mentally and physically. I hope that 2019 will continue in this vein, and be the year I worked towards finding my own happiness. I finally feel like I deserve that.
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    • Meowy Christmas!! 🎄🐱
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    • Top 9. Thanks for all the likes, comments, and generally putting up with my nonsense.
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    • Festive af last night. Second picture was, uh, several drinks in at a Christmas party.
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    • My coworker said I looked like a rich bitch after I put on my coat, but my outfit is totally Target except for my boots. But if you pronounce it “Tar-jay,” we can pretend I paid hundreds of dollars for this look.
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    • My first Christmas in my apartment (2016) vs this year. Still don’t think I have enough decorations though.
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    • Possibly professional.
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